Monday, September 14, 2009

it's been a while

The early days of a new relationship are exciting indeed. You find someone who makes you feel special and who is fun to be around. Over time, though, as the two of you become more familiar with each other it's easy to fall into the same old routine. When this happens you may start to feel as if you are being taken for granted.

If you have ever taken your significant other for granted then it will absolutely 100 percent negatively affect your relationship. If you think about it for a moment, you can say that no one likes to be taken for granted and very few people in their right mind will put up with it.

The sense of being taken for granted usually doesn't just appear overnight. It kind of creeps up on you, a little at a time, until eventually you start to notice that something about the relationship is different.

Nothing makes people feel better than that wonderful feeling of being appreciated and valued. Can you remember back when you met your other half and how absolutely wonderful it was? There was a feeling of mutual admiration and affection. We said things to each other like, "It's so nice to hear from you" or "thanks for calling". Do you remember spending what seemed like hours, (but it didn't matter). Why do we lose all of that?

Here are some of the telltale signs that he may be taking you for granted:

He assumes you'll always be there: This one can be subtle. Do they tend to ignore you or your phone calls when he is around his friends? Do they turn to you when they need something but push you away when you need something? Are they not as affectionate as they used to be?
He forget to tell you things: Everybody forgets things now and then, but if it's a pattern there may be more to it. Does he accept invitations for parties without telling you? Does he say he'll go somewhere with you and at the last minute remember that he has another commitment? Does he forget to let you know he'll be late?
He doesn't care what you do: Does he care where you are and what you are doing if he doesn't hear from you? Does he say nothing when you appear for the first time with a new haircut or a new outfit? Do you ever get the feeling that you could walk out of his life and wouldn't realise till next week that you're gone?

Point of this entry. We broke up, I just couldn't do it anymore. I felt like it was the right thing to do, I just didn't "feel it" anymore. I just waited too long for him to "change", that I ended up forgetting about my own happiness, I finally realized that there's more to life out there, rather than waiting and wallowing around hoping for him to change. It would have been our three years tomorrow, but you know what I'm not upset about the fact that I broke it off, I'm just "nanghihinayang" about the fact that he let me slip away..


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If you have ever taken your significant other for granted then it will absolutely 100 percent negatively affect your relationship. If you think about it for a moment, you can say that no one likes to be taken for granted and very few people in their right mind will put up with it. The sense of being taken for granted usually doesn't just appear overnight. It kind of creeps up on you, a little at a time, until eventually you start to notice that something about the relationship is different. Nothing makes people feel better than that wonderful feeling of being appreciated and valued. Can you remember back when you met your other half and how absolutely wonderful it was? There was a feeling of mutual admiration and affection. We said things to each other like, "It's so nice to hear from you" or "thanks for calling". Do you remember spending what seemed like hours, (but it didn't matter). Why do we lose all of that? Here are some of the telltale signs that he may be taking you for granted: He assumes you'll always be there: This one can be subtle. Do they tend to ignore you or your phone calls when he is around his friends? Do they turn to you when they need something but push you away when you need something? Are they not as affectionate as they used to be? He forget to tell you things: Everybody forgets things now and then, but if it's a pattern there may be more to it. Does he accept invitations for parties without telling you? Does he say he'll go somewhere with you and at the last minute remember that he has another commitment? Does he forget to let you know he'll be late? He doesn't care what you do: Does he care where you are and what you are doing if he doesn't hear from you? Does he say nothing when you appear for the first time with a new haircut or a new outfit? Do you ever get the feeling that you could walk out of his life and wouldn't realise till next week that you're gone? Point of this entry. We broke up, I just couldn't do it anymore. I felt like it was the right thing to do, I just didn't "feel it" anymore. I just waited too long for him to "change", that I ended up forgetting about my own happiness, I finally realized that there's more to life out there, rather than waiting and wallowing around hoping for him to change. It would have been our three years tomorrow, but you know what I'm not upset about the fact that I broke it off, I'm just "nanghihinayang" about the fact that he let me slip away..