Walking Down the Memory Lane

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♥ Kayciies . 21 years of age. . BS Nursing Student. . in a relationship. camwhore. movie bum. impatient. insensitive. gullible. procrastinator. passive. happy. childish. lazy. impatient. sensitive. hopeless romantic. unique. coffee addict. music lover. naive. common. random. loud. lazy texter. persistent. annoying. can be bitchy and bitter. quiet. extremely moody. happy-go-lucky. unpredictable. friendly. outgoing. fragile. loved. shy. crazy. sensitive. hated. happy. inlove. hard headed. intimidated. emotional. possesive. hyper-active. childish. paranoid. pessimistic. ~~broken~~.
Hating people is a waste of time. Manipulating them requires skill and devotion, Life is too short too stay angry. and lastly, I am striving to be a better person, just like everybody else.

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Mapi
Trixielle.
Ishna.
Kris Jasper.
Apple.
Kuya Mel.
Bianca.
Kuya Bong.
Krisna.
Eloiski.
Alex.
Homer.
Ate Quing and Kuya Rai.
Misha.
Charchar.
Tina.
Mia.
Anino.
Lance.
Chyng.
Acongtatsulok.
Chynx.
Cindy.
Naknak.
Kris.
Saling pusa.
Kryk.
Alea.
RJ.
Axl.
Chickletz.
Ron.
Kuya Zkey.

have you really ever loved a woman?

To really love a woman
To understand her - you gotta know it deep inside
Hear every thought - see every dream
N' give her wings - when she wants to fly
Then when you find yourself lyin' helpless in her arms
You know you really love a woman

When you love a woman you tell her
that she's really wanted
When you love a woman you tell her that she's the one
she needs somebody to tell her
that it's gonna last forever
So tell me have you ever really
- really really ever loved a woman?

To really love a woman
Let her hold you -
til ya know how she needs to be touched
You've gotta breathe her - really taste her
Til you can feel her in your blood
N' when you can see your unborn children in her eyes
You know you really love a woman

You got to give her some faith - hold her tight
A little tenderness - gotta treat her right
She will be there for you, takin' good care of you
Ya really gotta love your woman...

Just tell me have you ever really,
really, really, ever loved a woman? You got to tell me
Just tell me have you ever really,
really, really, ever loved a woman?

Have you guys? Good question e? Treat your ladies right :)

familiarity

At what point is it in a relationship where the excitement of getting to know that person is replaced with the familiarity that eventually breeds contempt?I have always believed in the concept that what you sow you will reap in return. If I plant seeds of love, acceptance, enthusiasm, and encouragement, won’t I receive the same gifts back? But maybe if I sow seeds of disregard, dismissal, and taking the person for granted, I will experience the same back on me…and maybe not all from the same person I have sown that treatment on.

Unfortunately this is always not the case. It doesn't mean that the more love and attention you give to your partner, he/she will be more likely to appreciate you. Sometimes, no matter how much you give, it's still never enough for them to see you.

When it happens in a relationship, you get into a comfort zone. You know that person will be there, so if you’re insensitive or distracted, it’s okay…at the back of your head you know they’ll still be there for you when you get in a better mood or you aren’t too busy anymore.

Things change and you begin to feel a distance there, but you can’t quite put your finger on what’s happening. Then the person starts noticing the flaws and they forget the person they had first gotten to know and adore. The thrill of the chase is gone. There was a time when they used to hang on every word said, every idea shared. Something you find exciting is met with a patronizing “oh, that’s nice.” Suddenly, You’re old news.

It sucks when you’re taken for granted. I know you can’t make somebody love you. You can’t force someone to see you with that same wonder of when they were getting to know you. I guess you’ve just gotta let the relationship cycle through the ups and downs, and hopefully your relationship has what it takes to survive it.